Why Having Your Large Family Photographed is Totally Worth It | Snoqualmie Family Photographer

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Why Having Your Large Family Photographed is Totally Worth It | Snoqualmie Family Photographer

Large family sessions are what my photographer dreams are made of. As a mother of 4, I love meeting with other moms with big families. From the get-go, we just get each other. Now I know it can seem daunting to get everyone ready for a family photo session, especially when you have five, six or even more people to plan outfits for. Several moms have told me trying to come up with outfits can be crazy. (Which is why I came up with this guide on how to dress your kids for family photos, to help you out!). However, they have all come back and said, it was so worth it after seeing their gallery of photographs featuring their family.

I take the traditional “family photo” first. I know that you got everyone ready and want that “perfect” shot to show off to friends and family, you know the one that shows that despite a large family, you’ve got your stuff all together. We start here because most kid’s attention span is short.

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But then the rest of the session is about capturing the photos you didn’t even realize you needed.

Our need for family photos may start with wanting a nice Christmas card photo or a gift for the grandparents, and anything beyond that is just gravy. But trust me, the gravy is the good stuff. When you see photos of your family playing, laughing, loving on one another, when you see how beautiful your “chaos” is, you will realize how worth it is was.

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The story is in the layers of your family.

After I photograph a wide shot, I will come in closer to get portraits of each child surrounded by their family. The reactions, interactions and looks in the background often add so much to an image, telling your story more fully.

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We will capture those special dynamics within your family.

When you have more than two kids there are so many different dynamics within a family. In my own family, my oldest two are super close and have a special bond. But then my daughters have a different relationship, and my oldest son with his baby brother just melt my heart. Don’t even get started on my kids and their dad, they each have this relationship with him that is so treasured.

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We take time for photos of just mom and dad.

When you’re in the trenches of raising a family, it is easy for you to get lost in the daily list of to-dos. You spend your days putting your kids first and your evenings trying to catch your breath before the next day. I want to help you see that spark you and your husband still have for each other all these years and kids later. Plus, the kids usually want to get in on that action, leading to more family photos that show off your family’s true personality.

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Your session comes with a custom designed album that you do not have to create.

The last thing you need is another thing on your to-do list. That is why I put together an album design for you, giving you a beautiful lay-flat album for your coffee table, to show friends and family, to pour through with your kids, to simply enjoy without any work on your part.

If you want to get images onto your walls, I make that easy for you, too. I have can put together wall displays, give ideas on what prints would look great as canvases or large prints, or what collection of images would work well together to tell a story.

In essence, I am here to help you get those digital files off of your computer so that you can truly enjoy your photos, enjoy your family, and see for yourself regularly that having your large family photographed was, in fact, totally worth it.

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What to Pack in Your Hospital Bag for Your Fresh 48 Photo Session | Issaquah Fresh 48 Photographer

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What to Pack in Your Hospital Bag for Your Fresh 48 Photo Session | Issaquah Fresh 48 Photographer

The most common question I get from mom’s who have booked a Fresh 48 session with me is what do I pack in my hospital bag for photos?

Before I continue, I want to say, if you’re in labor now, or just had your baby wanting a Fresh 48 session, just contact me now so I can come photograph your baby. Do not let not having the “right” thing stop you from documenting this fleeting time for your family.

However, if you’re expecting and working on your hospital bag, this is the perfect post for you.

Pack a comfortable and neutral tops for you and your husband.

It is so easy to think about baby, but trust me, your baby will be adorable in nothing but a diaper. So focus on you and your husband first. I suggest packing a nursing tank or t-shirt that is just for photos. After having a baby, just changing putting on a fresh clean shirt will help you feel photo ready.

Toss in a plain, casual shirt for your husband. I know that if I left it to my husband to pack his shirt, I’d end up with a bright shirt or one with a logo right across the front. A plain top allows the focus to be on baby while giving you clean, classic, and timeless photos from your Fresh 48 session.

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An open sweater or robe for mom are great accessories.

After giving birth you may want to feel a little more covered up. I totally get that. After each of my children were born, I had marks from all the IVs and tape holding those IVs. Having a robe or cardigan helps cover those up a little more during your session. They can also help you feel less like you are in a hospital.

I have seen many beautiful robes that are printed. While you’re looking keep in mind that bright colors or “loud” patterns can distract. The mom featured in this post is a beautiful example of using a robe as gave her a more feminine feel without taking away from their sweet baby boy.

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You do not have to pack anything for baby for a fresh 48 session.

The point of your session is to capture those details of your brand new baby. In the hospital baby will be in just a diaper, swaddled in a blanket. That is perfect. We can unwrap him, capture his toes, the umbilical stump, little fingers, and then wrap him up warm like he prefers to be. The swaddling blanket with the animals is a staple at hospitals and something we will want to capture.

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With that said, if you bring a swaddle from home and a hat, we can capture that too. Again, neutral is key again. If you pick a floral print, think about a pattern that has a light (white/grey) background with the print on top, over something that is bright and floral.

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Pack a Siblings Bag to help Grandparents dress your kids.

If you have kids coming to meet their sibling, packing a bag with what they should wear will help grandparents (or whoever is bringing your kids to the hospital) big time. Before my youngest was born I packed a bag that had clothes that were neutral and would photograph well in the hospital. I had even told my kids I had set up a special bag for grandma so that they knew what to expect and were excited to put on their “hospital clothes.”

The key is to coordinate not match.

Whether you’re packing for just you and your husband, or planning for your kids to meet their newest sibling, remember you want to coordinate not match. Everyone in white t-shirts and jeans can feel very 1990. Just like a normal family session, I lay out outfits ahead of time. Of course, they are more casual but I still don’t want anyone to clash or blend in with each other.

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When in doubt, send me a photo and I will help you.

If you’re packing your hospital bag and still unsure, send me a photo. I am here to help you.

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Family Photos Can Be A Fun Experience | Snoqualmie Family Photographer

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Family Photos Can Be A Fun Experience | Snoqualmie Family Photographer

When I was a kid, my family had professional photos taken ONCE. Yup, you read that right. It was an awful experience full of stiff poses, that had me awkwardly resting my hand on my brother’s shoulder. I also happened to have the WORST hair cut ever, and am oh so grateful that these photos still grace my parent’s walls. (Insert major eye roll here).

Stiff, boring, stressful family photos are a thing of the past.

A family session with me is about having fun, loving on each other, letting go, and embracing the chaos that is raising a family. So how do we make your session fun?

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I take the “family photo” first and then we have fun.

Since your kids are expecting to have to smile for photos, we get that out of the way first. When we meet at the location, I greet your family, catch up, and then I let the kids in on how our time together will work. I let them know that I’m just going to take a couple of quick photos for mom and dad, and then we will have some fun. Of course, we are getting photos the entire time. However, the only time I ask them to look at the camera is this very first shot.

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There is plenty of play and exploration during your family photo session.

With the family photo out of the way, everyone can relax. Your kids don’t feel pressure to do anything anymore and just let loose, have fun, and their real smiles come out. Making the most out of our location, we explore, play, throw rocks, dance, just have fun.

Don’t worry, I’m still guiding and helping you so that these seemingly candid moments are beautiful photographs.

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When your kids have a say they are more excited to participate in the experience.

I often ask your kids what they want to do, where they want to explore next, or who we should photograph next. Giving them control not only leads to more authentic portraiture of your family, but to kids excited to give ideas and make decisions.

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I have your kids help me take photos of you.

There is always a time I give kids a break and focus on just mom and dad together. However, I often ask kids to help me make sure mom and dad smile and invite them in on a secret mission. This is usually when I get the best laughs and smiles. They also want to go tackle/tickle/surprise mom and dad again and again, not even thinking about taking photos. To them, it is just a time to play and have fun with their parents. That’s the goal of family photos -to capture your family as you love on each other, to document your true smiles, love, and laughter - right?

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A photo session with me is not your typical family photo session experience.

I want to end this post by reminding you that a session with me is not like you remember family photos as a kid. That studio session with a photographer moving your hands and heads just so, wanting the kids to sit perfectly still to get the shot, that’s not what a session with me is like.

Your family will play, laugh, run, jump, move. There is lots of movement. It may feel chaotic compared to what you are used to. However, if you let go, just trust in the experience, I promise you will love your gallery of images of your family.

Let me say it again, if you’ve never had a session with me, you may leave wondering how on Earth any good photos were captured. The kids never sat still and were goofy and silly and running around, and maybe there were a few tears because someone tripped. But I promise, in the end you will have beautiful family photos that show off a bit of your own personality.

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Neyssa has captured our family so beautifully in every photo session we’ve done with her! We’ve had sessions where the weather and kids didn’t want to cooperate with us, but it didn’t matter because Neyssa’s talent combined with her patience and positive attitude allowed her to work with and around those things, and still produce wonderful photos! She knows how to make love and joy shine through in her photos, and we’re so thankful to have such lovely moments to hold on to forever.
— Jessica S.

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Why Moms Need to Get in the Photo, too! | Seattle Family Photographer

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Why Moms Need to Get in the Photo, too! | Seattle Family Photographer

As a mother, I know the desire to capture our children. We want to remember every moment, as our kids just grow up too quickly. We snap photos of them with our phones, we have professional photos done, and we download all of the photos taken of them at school.

It is just as important, if not more important, for us moms to get in the frame with our kids.

It is easy to make a million different excuses why we should not be in the frame right now. We blame the baby weight, or the lack of sleep, or we say that it is just too hard picking out outfits for everyone, and this is why we just want the kids photographed. But here’s why none of those reasons should matter enough to stop you from getting into the frame.

Your kids do not see any of your insecurities, they just see you.

I promise that your kids love you for who you are, for all that you do for your family, that is all. Simple as that.

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Both you and your children need to see yourselves in photos.

There is this study that shows that it is important for kids to see themselves in family photos. The idea is that it shows them that they are important members of the family, shows them where they fit in, which, in turn, boosts their self esteem. I would challenge that this effect is just as important for moms too.

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A photo session is about capturing the connections and special dynamics within your family.

There is so much more to your family’s story than just your smiles. The way you love each other, the way you light up as you watch him play, the way he laughs when you let go and are silly together - this is all a part of your story, this is what matters. And none of this can be captured if you do not get into the frame.

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Family photos are a gift you give your children for when they are grown.

No one wants to think about when they are gone, yet we all know time moves swiftly and we don’t get to stay forever. Your children will be grateful that you took the time to get family photos done, that you got into the frame with them, that they have these treasures to remember you by, to remember their childhood by.

I do not want to leave you on such a sad thought, so mama, I leave you with this….

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Mama, you are gorgeous.

Last year, I considered just having the kids photos done instead of with me in them. Another mama (in fact, it was the beautiful one you see in these photos) told me I was beautiful and I mattered. It was the same thing I tell other moms all the time, but needed to hear it myself.

Sometimes we just need someone else to tell us the truth. So here it is, you are gorgeous. I see you. Your kids see you. When I photograph your family, I see so much more than just you, I see your love, I see your genuine smile, I see how you light with your babies. These are the things I will capture for you and your family.

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